Between Reflections #1: We Can Always Choose to be Kind
Don't be overreact to a harmless questions
Photography is such an incredible journey, isn’t it? We start with curiosity, then we dive into creativity, and for some of us, it becomes a lifelong passion. But recently, I’ve noticed something that’s been on my mind.
Beginners—full of excitement—often reach out to experienced photographers with questions like, ‘What’s the best beginner camera?’ or ‘What lens should I buy?’ And instead of thoughtful answers, they sometimes get sarcasm, passive-aggressive comments, or even silence.
It made me wonder: why do we respond like that? What if, instead, we chose kindness?
Why overreact?
Actually, I get it. When we talk about photography at the level of photobooks or exhibitions, it’s not just about the tools. It’s about the story, the photographer’s vision, the emotions captured in a single frame.
But here’s the thing: reaching that level is a process. And the first step in that process is, of course, finding your tools—your first camera, your first lens. That’s normal.
When someone is just starting out, asking for camera recommendations isn’t about ignoring that the important thing of photography is the story and emotions—it’s about taking that first step. And when they ask someone they admire for advice, it’s not just a question; it’s trust. They’re saying, ‘I respect your experience. Can you guide me?’ That’s such a vulnerable, exciting place to be.
My perspective
I remember when I was just starting out. I had no idea what I needed. I only knew I wanted to take photos. My first camera wasn’t fancy—it wasn’t even close to what I use now—but it got me excited to create. And that excitement is what kept me going. What was your first camera? Do you still remember how it felt to hold it?
So yes, photography is about the person behind the camera, not the gear. But when you’re new, the gear is your entry point. It’s how you begin to see the world through a photographer’s eyes.
We’ve been there. We know that excitement of starting out. We also know how much effort it takes to get from beginner to creating meaningful stories with our work.
So, instead of brushing off people or responding with sarcasm, I choose to take a moment to share my experience. Share how I chose my first camera. Share how I moved from focusing on tools to focusing on vision.
I’m not just answering a question—hopefully, I’m helping and shaping someone’s journey. And that’s powerful to me.
A message for you who just started
To those who watch this and you’re wondering what camera to buy, remember—there’s no ‘perfect’ choice. It’s about finding something that feels right for you. Start simple. Learn what you like. And don’t worry if your first choice isn’t perfect—you’ll grow into what you need. Because I happened to start 8 years earlier than you, especially in film photography, you can ask me anything. From camera recommendations to photobook creation. I’ll try answer as best as I can based on my own experience.
Your first camera isn’t the end goal—it’s just the beginning of a much bigger adventure.
Reflections
Photography is about capturing moments, telling stories, and connecting with others. And that connection starts with how we treat each other—whether we’re beginners, pro, or whatever you called it.
So let’s be kind. Let’s encourage curiosity. Let’s answer questions with patience, because every great photographer was once a beginner, too.
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